Gotta Start Somewhere…

When I started this blog, I promised myself I wouldn’t be embarrassed if there were long stretches without an update. Well here it is 8 months later and I’M BACK. No shame in my game.

I’ve been busy. Working on exciting projects, new jobs, and not doing a whole lot of cooking.

Last weekend, I went back to volunteering at my favorite place, Farm Sanctuary. Luckily I got to spend some quality time with some of my favorite beings on the planet.

One thing I always come back to, no matter how busy I am, is the impact of even the smallest actions.

We’re led to believe that we’re small dots in the universe. That our choices and ideas don’t move the needle of humanity.

Luckily for us, that isn’t true.

Every day we have the ability to transform the world around us. A friend of mine recently was making a huge life decision and said “This feels like a Sliding Doors moment.” But the truth is, every moment is a Sliding Doors moment. We just add significance to some moments because we’re humans looking for meaning. Any weekend spent volunteering makes a measurable impact. Every opportunity to eat plant-based has an impact. Taking a break from cheese for the week does make a difference. Just ask the failing dairy industry.

The point I’m trying to make is: you & your choices matter.

You have the power to make a difference. Every minute of every day.

While I think many people know that intellectually, they don’t want to live that way. It seems naive or optimistic, or maybe it’s just too much responsibility– the weight of which keeps us immobile.

I used to be that way. I used to sit on my couch thinking of all the things I could be doing to make a difference. Then I’d go back to Netflix. But I felt empty. And frustrated. I knew I wasn’t expressing myself in my choices or actions.

All this to say: if what I’m saying feels familiar, I get it. It’s hard to get over feeling insignificant.

You just have to take ONE action. Go vegan for a weekend. Educate yourself by watching Earthlings or Cowspiracy. Volunteer. Call an old friend and clear the air. Get the ball rolling and you’ll be on your way.

I have faith in you. ❤


How Can You Tell If Someone’s Vegan? Don’t worry, they’ll tell you (because they’re desperate to save the planet.)

Many vegans have heard this hilarious joke many times: “How can you tell if someone’s vegan at a party? Don’t worry, they’ll tell you.” It makes me laugh every time I hear it. People telling that joke or identifying with it, have a legitimate complaint: many vegans talk about being vegan. It’s true! You got me.

Here’s a slightly less funny version of that joke: How can you tell if someone’s passionate about something? They talk about it.

But maybe the sadder reverse of that joke is that people often talk about things they REALLY don’t care about when they’re around people they don’t know. In our culture, that’s encouraged and validated. People talk about the weather. The latest political scandal. All the weddings they have to go to this year. Maybe these things seem relatable, so people feel more comfortable sharing them with people they barely know.

But what if we create a conversation at a party that’s about the bigger stuff?

People also like to talk about their families, their career, their hobbies and I’m not knocking that! In fact, that’s what I’m talking about. Sharing your passions or your pride in your favorite people is a shortcut to really connecting with another person.

But if I want to complain about something or rehash my day, I can do that at home with my husband or my journal. At a party, if someone is interested, of course I’ll talk to them about being vegan. If they don’t care, I get that. Having a passion for something doesn’t mean foisting it on everyone you meet in every situation. You have to have a genuine connection with someone in order for a conversation about your passions to be heard.

Remember the first time you learned about something awful or wrong that was happening in the world or maybe even in your hometown?

You can’t stop thinking about it. Telling people about it. “Have you heard what they’re trying to do to Planned Parenthood?!” or “Oh my god! Did you see Blackfish? SeaWorld is so messed up.” or “Can you believe that the USDA counts ketchup as a vegetable in public school lunches?!” It just comes flying out of your mouth! You want everyone to know.

That’s how I feel about factory farming. And health. And our planet’s resources.

“Each day, a person who eats a vegan diet saves 1,100 gallons of water, 45 pounds of grain, 30 square feet of forested land, 20 pounds of CO2 equivalent, and one animal’s life. “

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If I don’t talk about it, who will? And I know that you don’t really care about the weather either. The weather is a circumstance where talking about it doesn’t make any difference at all. The food that we eat is an area where each person on the planet has the power to make a difference.

What you talk about and the way you talk about it matters. Challenge yourself to raise the bar of conversation next time you’re at a party! People can handle it. In fact, most of the time they prefer it. 


What do you think? Are you shy talking about the things you care about? Let me know your thoughts in the comments!